In this 21st century we are living in today, a lot of things are going on in the single’s world before stepping into marriage. Most of the single men who are dating their fiancée would want them to get pregnant before marriage, Why??? The reason is, they man in question want to be sure if the lady is fertile and can bring forth children. Why do you want to put someone in a family way before marring the person?

Some single ladies have gone ahead already to defile the matrimony bed just to keep the relationship going and make the man happy.

Beloved, I want singles to know that it is a sin to go by the principles or lifestyle of the world. The Word of God says,’ we should not conform ourselves to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of our mind. The fact that people around you are doing it doesn’t make it right. The Bible says ‘let the bed be undefiled’ (Hebrews 13:4). Furthermore never undress yourself or show your nakedness by way of desperation to catch a man’s attention to marry you. If he truly loves you, he will not lure you into doing such unrighteous acts. Never do shortcuts in life or do things to please others. Ensure you keep to God’s standard that you won’t defile yourself until the right time. Besides be as bold as Joseph who took a stand not to sin against God in the midst of Potiphar wife’s insisting to go to bed with him (Read Genesis 39:7). Therefore no one on this planet earth should force you to go against God’s standard. Hold unto righteousness and keep yourself; don’t listen to the lies of this world. Wait and do things right and in the right way that pleases God. In so doing you will receive double blessings for being obedient to God and His word. I pray that the Lord will grant you wisdom. May His grace keep you and His righteousness be your potion in Jesus’Name, AMEN.

Shalom! Shalom! Shalom!

SOURCEViolet Chipo
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