Hi Sister! How are you? Hello i’m good and you? God is faithful! How is life generally? Well not quite good! Oh sorry to hear that! Is there anything you want to share? The lady looks down and tears run down her face! What is your name? she responded Barbara. Oh what a sweet name answered Monica and embraced her and said “Don’t worry everything will be fine and handed over pocket tissue to her “Can we get to the nearest cafe and just have a word? Whispered Monica! Okay responded Barbara.

Monica booked for a taxi 🚕 to Costa Coffee! As they reach and sat down, Monica orders breakfast for two of them. Barbara thanked Monica for the treat. While seating down Barbara started weeping again uncontrollable and said, is this how life is! Monica grabs the pocket tissue and consoles her! What’s the matter, talk to me! I’m here for you.

She weeps bitterly 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 and later summon up courage to talk👄. I have been through a lot in relationships but non end up in marriage. I’ve checked myself to see if the fault is from me and found nothing! The last relationship, I only dated for a month and that was it! Here I am bruised. There is nothing I didn’t do just to keep this relationship going. I have gone on dates, cohabited and had sexual intercourse and this morning, I received a call from this so called guy that the relationship is over. I asked him what I did wrong, he never responded. He said the relationship is over.

Monica – answered so sorry to hear this! From what you’ve said I could pick out some things that could have gone wrong in the relationship. I’m so sorry to hear👂 this! Anyway we learn everyday and it is through our mistakes that we learn. I just want to encourage you with the woman in the Bible whom Jesus said go and sin no more! They brought her to Jesus for Him to condemn because she was caught in the very act but Jesus asked the people that brought her to first cast a stone on her if they have never sinned. All of them dropped the stone and left her, Jesus turned and ask her ‘where are your accusers’?

“She said, No one Lord. And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more.” (John 8:11).

Monica continued…..You are not the worst sinner on earth; sometimes we do things out of ignorance without knowing what the word of God says. What I would like to encourage you is to do things differently next time. The Word of God says marriage must be respected by all and the marriage bed undefiled. Marriage is a sacred institution that the Lord Himself established. There is time for everything! Note! The things you do from the foundation of your relationship will determine whether it will lead to marriage or not. Dearest, purity in a relationship is not a suggestion but a requirement for a successful and a happy marriage. Men lose trust when you give into immorality and majority of relationship don’t last. So please Barbara do things differently next time! Make a vow not to defile the temple of God no matter who comes your way and the pressure from the man your dating. Whoever that God sends your way, make sure you don’t compromise your faith. He will wait for you! And also don’t show act of desperation. Just trust God and at His appointed time ⏲️ it will come to pass.

There is hope for we serve the God of second a chance. He will wipe away your tears! Also remember that the former things are passed away. He will cleanse you and make you white as snow (Isaiah 1:18). Jesus died for humanity. He came to redeem us back to Himself. Nobody is perfect; therefore don’t think that God hates you. He hates the SIN in you and not you. God is faithful and just to forgive us of every unrighteousness (1 John 1:9).

Monica said with a smile to Barbara: Jesus loves you and that is why He came to die for you. Just ensure you don’t go back to your vomit. Barbara – Thank you Monica for your encouragement. God brought you my way to give me this Word. God bless you.

Monica embraced Barbara…..
If you need anything please feel free to contact me……and off Barbara leaves equipped and restored!

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SOURCEViolet Chipo
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